Exactly! Like nowadays we make fun of these true/pure feelings in a way that made most of us bottle them up and suppress them and boom you face the numbness phase or just get your sexuality distorted:/

Especially you men amongst each other. The way men that care and treat their girl like a princess (which is the only way to treat a girl) are dissed, made fun of, and called simps. It irritates me so much because it made more men shitty with girls just to avoid being called simps.